Tag: health

Posted in April 2024, Archive

Let’s talk about Ableism

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The recent podcast episode that featured ableist remarks and disgusting views towards disabled persons has sparked a conversation that needs to be had.

When we discriminate and label disabled individuals with disgusting terms such as ‘mangled’ & ‘grim’, we are contributing to the systemic ableism that is already prevalent in society. The last thing we need is for discrimination to be given a platform and normalized even further.

It is important to remember that health is in no way guaranteed, and you could become disabled at some point. Whether it be from an accident, illness, or old age, our health can deteriorate. Would you then view yourself as “mangled and grim”?

For those who have been affected by the hurtful remarks made in the podcast, remember your self-worth. You are deserving of love and respect, and ableism has no place in our society.

Posted in Archive, march 2024

The UK Government’s Violation of Disability Rights: What You Need to Know

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Disability inclusion as a human right should be universally upheld. Too often it is not. In 2017, the UN found the UK government guilty of ‘systematic and grave’ violations against the disabled community under the UN Convention on the Rights of Persons with Disabilities. The UK then government failed to attend a crucial hearing in August 2023, proividing no reason for their abscene. Disabled individuals and organizations who attended this hearing provided evidence to the UN committee of further negtive long term impacts to disbled citzens due to governmental policies and funding cuts/services.

March 18th, 2024 the UK government is expected to appear before the UN committee and demonstate the actions it has taken since 2017 to rectify these human rights violations. At the heart of these violations are the breach of three key articles: Article 19 (independent living), Article 27 (Work & Employment), and Article 28 (Adequate Standard of Living & Social Protection). t is imperative for there to be global prescence to witness this committee, so as to increase awareness on the current lack of action taken to address the violation of disabled peoples human rights in the UK and to advocate for this ongoing crisis. You will be able to watch this session virtually using the below link.

Where can I watch? https://webtv.un.org/en/asset/k1s/k1svtljvtr

What time? 2pm-3:30pm UK time

Posted in Archive, march 2024

Health’s Expiration Date: Why Accessibilty Shouldn’t Be An Afterthought

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Health is often discussed in a way that would imply it is a given untill old age. It is a mindset that is flawed and dismissive of the many factors that can impact our health at any age. It ignores genetic predispositions, accidents and injuries, age related complications, conditions that develop with unknown causes, complications caused by other illnesses e.g stokes, etc.

It is necessary for there to be a shift away from the idea that health is a given, to one where it has an expiration date. With that viewpoint in mind, I ask why does society remain as inaccessible as it currently is? The majority of us will, at some point in our lives experience a level of disability. Despite this accessibility across the board is not where it needs to be to make life equally accessible for all.

Health expires, so why does accessibility remain an afterthought?

Posted in Archive, march 2024, September

‘Traditional Employment Is A Requirement’

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Over the past few months, my husband and I have encountered a recurring challenge while searching for a new home: many landlords insist that both of us must be in ‘traditional full-time employment’. This has been quite an obstacle for us. Despite my nearly seven-year career as an author, landlords always seem wary when they learn that I receive PIP, while barely sparing a glance at my husband’s long-term employment history.

With our current landlord asking us to find a new home by the end of March, we’ve found ourselves having many alate-night conversation, trying to figure out a solution. I suggested that I explore alternative job opportunities that were disability friendly.  In the early stages of my career, I used to write only during the night – while not ideal, it’s a balancing act I could manage again if necessary.

However, navigating the job market presented new challenges. While remote work was widely advertised just a few years ago, many companies now require office-based or hybrid roles. For me, a fully remote job is currently necessary due to my reliance on physical assistance to leave my home.

The more we talked about these issues, I kept coming back to the same questions:

What exactly is ‘traditional’?

If our household income meets your requirements, why should my disability or my job title matter?

At the moment, we don’t have a solution. There’s no magic fix. In the meantime, I plan to continue documenting these interactions and hope that we can make progress towards more tolerance and equality in society.

Posted in Archive

International Wheelchair Day 2024

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Wheelchairs are often associated with frailty, illness, and vulnerability, but they serve as valuable tools that offer freedom of movement and independence, liberating individuals from limiting circumstances. They are remarkable aids that significantly enhance the lives of those who use them.

Access to an electric wheelchair has had a positive impact on my quality of life. After experiencing frequent dislocations from using a manual chair, the electric wheelchair has allowed me to move around independently and safely, factors which cannot be stressed enough as to their importance.

As technology continues to advance, the future looks promising for wheelchairs, and I am eagerly anticipating the developments to come.

Posted in Archive, February 2024

Discrimination In The Rental Market

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In our recent search for an accessible home following being served with a S21 notice and my changing health needs, we have encountered a disappointingly high level of discrimination and prejudice. Finding an accessible property has proven to be a challenging and frustrating process, not because suitable accommodations do not exist, but simply due to the discriminatory attitudes of several estate agents/landlords we have encountered.

In both private and social housing sectors, we have faced barriers. Despite legal protections against discrimination based on disability, we have been told by multiple landlords that they do not accept wheelchair users or those who do not have traditional full-time employment. The scarcity of accessible social housing options only adds to the difficulty of finding a suitable living situation before our S21 expires.

What has become abundantly clear throughout this process is that the real obstacle we face is not my health or disability, but society’s unwillingness to make simple accommodations for individuals with disabilities. Accessible housing should not be considered to be a luxury but a basic necessity. Yet we find ourselves constantly met with obstacles and roadblocks. While there may be laws in place to protect against discrimination, they seem like empty gestures in the face of the everyday reality.

It is time for society to prioritize accessibility and inclusivity in housing and other areas to ensure that individuals with disabilities are able to live independently and with dignity. The current state of affairs is unacceptable, and it is up to all of us to work towards a more inclusive and accessible society for everyone.

Posted in Archive, November 2022

First Neurology Appointment

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The nerves leading up to today’s appointment had been doubling with each sunrise. I was dreading meeting my new neurologist. After a decade under the care of Prof Wonderful, and have met more than a handful of neurologists with severe god complexes before I wasn’t feeling very optimistic. Whilst I knew that it was ridiculous to tarnish all neurologists with the same brush, I had met multiple neuro’s from this particular hospital before who had awful bedside manners. Previously they had refused to take me on as patient as they had deemed me too complicated at my first appointment. The second time they met me my symptoms were brushed under the rug with a quick “ah it’s most likely a side effect of your Ehlers Danlos” but didn’t run any tests to back this up. So I was hesitant to say the least, and that I would once again be swept under the rug.

The appointment had come rather suddenly as an opening slot had become available via their virtual neurology clinic. Whilst it meant that I still wouldn’t get my botox, it would at least mean that my foot would be in the door, my name on their patient list, which feels like a positive step forwards after several months of floating around in the neurology space waiting to be allocated to a hospital.

I was pleasantly surprised by the neurologist who met with me. He was open about his retirement plans and understood my wishes for continuity of care due to the complex nature of my health. It was agreed that I would be assigned to a different neurologist, whose specialism was Dystonia, he reassured me he would book me into the botox clinic as soon a space became available. I had expected there to be an issue when I brought up the frequency of my injections (6 weekly) as this is quite a small gap between treatments than what most prescribe. His understanding of the matter was not one I’d been met with before. Normally I have to really battle to get my Drs to understand that this treatment regime was one created out of necessity to keep me out of the hospital due to the severity of my Oromandibular Dystonia.

We had had a brief chat over where we felt my treatment needed to be going moving forwards as whilst the majority of my body is fairly well controlled my jaw is feeling much like a losing battle. I still have a lot of baby teeth as I don’t have the adult teeth for them in my mouth, which at almost 30 I’m pretty happy their still in place! However several are now painful and wobbly due to the battering they have received from my tremors, spasms, and dislocations. We know from previous experiences there is no point in wiring the jaw shut as the spasms are strong enough to break the wires, but further intervention in some form is needed. We briefly discussed today playing around further with the EMG machine to see if that can pinpoint better the areas needed to be injected and some surgeries we can try. These though will obviously be needed to be discussed again in greater detail face to-face.

Overall it was a very positive appointment. I’m still devastated not to be under my old neurologist, he really helped me not only accept my conditions but also reign myself back in when I needed it. He helped me to adapt to my new life and for that, I will be forever grateful.

Posted in Archive, September 2021

Covid-19 has arrived in our household

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Toward the end of last week our youngest woke with a fever. She didn’t have a cough, a runny nose or anything that particular screamed that it could be Covid-19, nor were we aware of anyone that we had seen recently who had developed it. So we were not particularly worried. However we arranged for her to have a PCR test as govt guidelines list a temperature as one of the signs to watch for. We didn’t expect a positive result, thinking instead it was far more likely to be a normal cold. After all the kids seem to have colds constantly. Less than 24 hours later at 1am in the morning my phone buzzed to let us know we needed to isolate. She had covid.

We tried our best to keep the anxiety at bay. Both myself and my partner are fully vaccinated, having received our vaccines at the start of the year. Yet after shielding for so long, and reading up on the virus over the past 18 months on the many different issues it can cause, it was hard not to worry. Both my son and I were shielders. Stefan, tested positive two days later. Whilst he has been undeniably feeling rotten and suffered more than Evie, he has luckily coped far better than we expected and is now seeming more like his cheeky self again.

We thought that we may have escaped catching it. Almost a week went by and then Damon tested positive. I was already isolating away from the rest of my household to try and avoid catching it as I had developed sinusitis which my body was already struggling to cope with. At my partners suggestions I was feeling worse rather than improving on my antibiotics I took a lateral flow test. The test result line appeared in less than twenty seconds. So off we went for a PCR again, which soon confirmed what we all ready knew.

This extremely short blog has taken me nine hours to write – ridicules I know. The fatigue I am experiencing is unreal I keep falling asleep while writing it despite being sat up with laptop on me. My body is not happy with a mirad of symptoms between dislocations, nerve pain, fatigue, spasms, no smell and taste, itchiness all over, breathlessness and spams on the left side of face which feels is as if it is determined to detach itself from my skull and be on its’ merry way.

My apologies for not getting round to live on facebook today. I needed to sleep. Hopefully tomorrow if I am feeling up for it I will do but it will depend on how I’m feeling.

Posted in Archive, July 2021

Injection Day and referral thoughts

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Picture of Rebecca wearing a facemask and holding a takeaway coffee cup sitting in a hospital waiting room waiting for an appointment. Wearing a brown cardigan, black white spotty top, blue disposal facemask,
Waiting to see my neurologist

Today was botox day up in London with my lovely neurologist. He’s happy that the medication we started on a few months back is keeping me far more stable, which is amazing, so we are keeping that in my treatment plan. I’m currently on a medium dose so we have room to play with should we need to come winter when I typically go down hill due to the cold.

I’ve finally gotten the date for my video fleursoscopy which is the middle of next week. I’m a little nervous but it will be good to shed some light on what’s been going on internally and if there is anything specific that we can do/change to tackle it. This is to tackle the chronic aspiration.

Then it’s on to blood tests. Whilst I don’t mind these particularly, my veins are world class players at hide and seek. No matter how much I drink before hand they like to hide or better yet collapse. I often leave blood tests looking somewhat like a pin cushion. These are being done just to double check there’s nothing being missed and causing any issues whilst we wait for Gyny to see me. They were meant to see me almost a year ago. However they keep rearranging and cancelling my appointments, which my lovely GP is chasing. In the meantime I’m left with regular pain flares that leave me doubled up in pain.

I’m hoping now that more people are vaccinated that appointments/refferals may start going back to normal. Specially orthotics is one appointment I’m looking forward to, my knees and wrists need new splints. It’s not an urgent appointment in anyway but it would make day to day life a bit easier and reduce pain a little more.

In the meantime I’m ticking along. I’m looking forward to the schools breaking up and making the most of the summer holidays before my eldest starts primary school full time.

This made me laugh a lot. Credit to Theraspecs
Posted in june, June 2021

First MaxFax Injections in a Year!

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Today I received my first lot of maxfax injections in a year! These are to help control my recurrent jaw dislocations. Normally these are timed so they are six weeks after my last lot of neurology injections to help max the benefits from both. The pandemic put a bit of a pause to that.

It was a new Dr today who treated me, who couldn’t quite believe that despite looking fairly normal, upon exam my jaw was still out of place. So we opted to switch things up. I had the usual jabs along with some new ones. Hopefully we will see some improvement.

I’d forgotten how much Botox flu can wipe me out. So I’ve medicated up and I’m mentally allowing myself to slow down for the next few days to help recover.